Sometimes you get stuck in a rut, and don’t quite know where to go next. You’ve made most of the obvious improvements, but you know that you can get better. I’ve always had game, but these are the not so obvious things that pushed me to the next level:

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I learned so much just by getting out of the “this method is better than this method” mentality. Instead, I started studying everything out there with an open mind. I pushed my personal opinions aside and tried to first understand the reasoning behind the methods. Those of you out there playing fanboy and worshiping schools of thought, just because of your personal opinions, are really handicapping yourself. The reason each method is popular is because it has something of value that is probably useful to you.

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There’s a time to cut the bullshit, but until then, bullshitting can take you a long ways, especially after the initial approach. I placed myself in a job where I would basically have to bullshit with people about whatever and this pushed my conversation skills waaaay beyond their initial limits. If you can effectively burn time with mature women, then there’s a good chance that you’ll be able to pick them up.

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Sometimes, you just want to be nice to people by letting them hang around you, but I’m telling you right now, if they don’t bring anything to the table, you’re better off without them. Having the wrong kinds of wingmen can destroy your game. If you want to roll with me then you either better be good looking, or you better be fun. It sounds cruel, but if your wingman is ugly AND boring or one of those wings that likes to get in your way and hit on every girl that you come across, then you’re better off without him. If he’s not helping you, then he’s hurting you.

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I think too many men go about things the wrong way. They think backwards. They pick an environment or style of game, and try to fit themselves into that mold. The day I told myself “this is who I am and everything I do is going to be built around it”, is the same day everything became so much easier. What am I talking about? I’ll give you one example: I am not the type of guy to chase mature women. It’s just very awkward and unnatural for me. In my head, I’ve always believed that mature women should chase after me. So what did I do? I built everything around attracting mature women to me. And you know what? It works. Don’t go against the current. Make it work for you.

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I agree with not restricting yourself to one "method". My game is a combination of a handful of different PUAs material. Alot of them have completly different concepts and theories, but I've used them all and combined them to make, what is, my game

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